♪ ღ ♪ Women In Aesthetics of Allegiance ♪ ღ ♪

Faithfulness is a work of art of the human mind can be very happy that another human being. The price is not stated in a matter of dollars. And loyalty that is very, very rare for us to meet today.

Loyalty does not only apply only to the relationship of husband and wife, but in all the relations of the human heart complete with their interests.

Ask any human mind, how they will definitely need someone who can genuinely give allegiance to them.

But why on the other hand, when humans are placed in a position where he must fulfill the faith of others, or in other words, happy for other people, human beings often get stuck in to the temptation to play the fire about how loyalty is violated. That, however, the story goes, the devil will never stop making sinful man.

Therefore, from our own in the busy demands of others to always hold the trust and the trust we gave him, then why are not we better make ourselves as the best gift that they are happy. A good training that will provide a beautiful reality in practice fidelity, is when our own self-consciously understand the beauty of a loyalty.

Because personal fidelity is only owned by a noble, because it reflects the personal loyalty that is so widely accepted all the advantages and shortcomings of others. His soul led him broad smile and keep thinking positive about all that God has outlined to him.

Because only available for private devotion with a strong spirit. Look how graceful about how to survive the things which are presented to him. And was common when humans comes boredom, but a lesson in loyalty, has taught man that comes with the inner or complement it, to turn into a magical way in which the elegant, boredom will in turn it became a fun thing.

Because loyalty is only held by beautiful soul. How very difficult when someone is set on a situation where he must remain in a state of fidelity terkelilingi by the department of treason. It is bitter at first because of this, he was `forced 'to training heed his own soul and his heart, to keep the loyalty.

Being loyal is to give peace to anyone that we are faithful to him. Being faithful is still fun to anyone that we are faithful to him. Being faithful is an infinite gift for anyone who desired God to have it.

Then be owner of a patent loyalties, by a faithful servant of God who keep it straight, or try to always keep straight under any circumstances. What could be more beautiful than a temperament and behavior of a servant whose heart is submissive and devoted to Robbnya?. Fall up is definitely something in a self-trained to be faithful, but they certainly are, that a struggle must come to an end, and hopefully the end of the truly faithful are personal gain by Heaven. God willing.

open old records: ~ Soca ~

This world will run faster toward destruction when teachers no longer understand how important he was to the world. Their job is not to impose its will on the disciples, but just open their eyes and membiaran discover his own world.

Soca ... How hebatpun yourself, never felt he had to become a teacher. Sampaikalah benefit from the knowledge that you know only just to remind yourself. Because a teacher should not take up arms and show dexterity, except when he was teaching science to her students.
...

Too east if today kaujadikan yourself as a teacher, are not you leave one little bit bitter trail to the top of the salty-bitter as life. Berlakulah as carve time period. Needless to hasty decision.

Fatigue is a partial test of patience. A Pandita should not call himself Pandita. You arrived at the top of the mountains as you browse through the valleys and you climb any steep ravines sharpness.

Indeed, at every threshold-threshold glory seeds of destruction are always available. So walk with a cloak of silence, because the world is so swift flowing temptation. Likewise tease you to quickly rid themselves of it should you intervenes.

Without a common thread

Several years ago I traveled to Yogyakarta. While it is fun-fun finish to the views of the people passing in addition to Smart Park, all of a sudden my stomach like a worm colonized wild. I certainly would not want to immediately find a toilet, hoping for some free toilet that could be where I carry loose.

After walking around, I found no such thing as a toilet too. Finally I decided to do the wandering around the streets nearby-there. Alhamdulillah .... I finally found a Catholic church people who I forgot his name. Between needs and doubts, I finally decided to venture into the church yard.

Incidentally there is an outgoing person. Out of nowhere, which he clearly out of place I had never seen, though not deliberately hidden. With the dialect that I make-up so as not to sound too Ndesa, I asked about the existence of a toilet in it and hope to gave me the most glorious place for the attainment of my intent.

Thank God for the second time, he gently showed me the right way.
"Through the right, then there will be the entrance. Mas just go there, near the door was a toilet. "
And not just smile on my lips but also on the lips of the man that I did not know his name at that time until now.

"What a glorious place," I thought at the time. In recent times the beautiful pengejanan finally I could finish it with the intent that it is difficult diprosentasekan success rate of success. After approaching the verge of completion, I decided to wrap because I am bound by the comrades who mendatagi jogja together.

Out of the scene (the scene), my face was so sumringah like people who do not bear the burden of sin. Some ask about the sphere of my existence had disappeared.

"I think people were kidnapped, said." Said one friend who of course just a mere joke.
"Where there are people who want to kidnap me hooked to eat, he could lose the next world." Answer me blindly, and my friends laughed so heard.

Of course I capture their laughter as happiness which does not require bribes. Laughter truly sincere as sincere men who received me at the church.

Shortly thereafter, we take a trip to the shopping center. Berjejaran many books, but there are things that are so caught my attention when standing near a row of religious books. They are so in harmony despite their different faith. Some of them even contains a discussion of some people in the name of interfaith discussion.

Whim, I opened a book and read its contents. I certainly do not need to say anything and just book it tells how. In addition to so many kinds of content are presented, which clearly I myself have forgotten about what I read.

If some time ago had heard the news about the opposition groups from biker gangs to the religious beliefs, in bookstores, I felt so peaceful to see the contents of different books that face each other and talking to each other with their respective viewpoints. They never argue, but simply pass on appropriate information which they know and understand. No sound of explosions and teasing. Even when I pass them without permission, there is nothing to feel angry at all. Those who are not sensitive or that I do not have manners? Maybe I am crazy. Just like that conclusion.

The last place we visited was Parangtritis which some domestic tourists call it by its acronym Paris. I also wonder, it reminds me of the city of Bandung is known as the Paris Van Java. In my mind the question, "Why not just the so-called Paris Jawane Europe?"

With the mention of-the mention of something that identifies it as a nation have duplication of other countries shows that we are not confident enough to make us as a cultural epicenter. People are more often banging her identity very far from what they already have so often we experience culture shock is to Amnesia.

In fact, if we allow a little time to look for a moment some things very well respected by people in the western world with what we have found a much different understanding of the range. One is when the people we use several types of animals to show things are not as good as calling someone a dog, in the West dogs are very honored. Even a female labrador dog named Genny almost became mayor in Canada if the selection committee to authenticate it to be one candidate. Looks like the owner, Marven Whidden, already felt that he was worthy to become one of the dogs in the city's residents.

So, what does the story just now with the story of my ride defecating on one of the Catholic Church Jogja? I do not really know where the threads. And as always, I will force myself not to blush-story merahkan thread because I am not a carpenter or a tailor screen printing in many Judicial custody slapstick.

Is not it ...?

TRASH

shut up if you do not understand anything
ask if you want to understand anything
The remaining waste is:
for those who do not understand

must always be friends no means agree
uncertain of the correct
no means always the wrong enemy
... but man;
does not mean anything, if
do not understand humanity

silence is a choice
life is not merely dwell
talk to if your hand stiff
dumb move if your mouth
write if you are able to

Just enter the barrel
if the head of the frozen

I Hate My husband of ten years

May the events below to make us learn to be grateful for what we have:

I hate it, that's what always whisper in my heart for most of our time together. Though married, I never really gave my heart to him. Marriage of emotional abuse parent, makes me hate my own husband.

Although forced marriage, I never showed the attitude of hatred. Though hated it, every day I serve as the task of a wife. I had to do it all because I had no other grip. Several times a desire to leave but I do not have the financial capability and support for anyone. My parents were very fond of my husband because according to them, my husband is a figure of perfect husband for their only daughter.

When married, I became the wife of a very spoiled. I did everything as I please. My husband also indulged in such a way. I never really had my duties as a wife. I always depend on him because I thought it was supposed to be after what he did to me. I gave my life to him that his job makes me happy to obey all my wishes.

In our house, I'm the queen. No one dared to resist. If there is little problem, I always blame my husband. I do not like a wet towel placed on the bed, I hate to see it put the spoon stirring the rest of the milk on the table and it left a sticky, I hate when he uses my computer even if only to finish the job. I was angry when he hung his clothes in kapstock my shirt, I'm also angry that he put the toothpaste without squeezing it neatly, I was angry when he contacted me to many times when I'm having fun with my friends.

I had chosen not to have children. Although it does not work, but I do not want to take care of the child. Initially he and I will support family planning with the pill. But apparently he wants to hide it in until one day I forgot to take birth control pills and even though he knew he had let it. I also pregnant and did not realize until after more than four months, refused to abort dokterpun.

That's the greatest anger him. Anger grew when I was expecting twins and have had a difficult birth. I forced him to act a vasectomy so I'm not pregnant anymore. Dutifully, he did all of my wishes because I threatened to leave with our two children.

Time passed until the children do not feel over-year to eight. Like the previous morning, I woke up at the end. Husband and children were waiting for me at the dinner table. As usual, it was he who provided breakfast and the kids off to school. That day, he warned that day there was the anniversary of my mother. I just replied with a nod of his words regardless of events reminiscent of the previous year, when I choose to go to the mall and the mother was not present at the event. Well, because they feel trapped in my marriage, I also hate my parents.

Prior to the office, usually my husband just kissed me and the children followed. But that day, he hugged me so the kids tease him noisily. I tried to dodge and release the arms. Although finally smile with the children. He kissed back up several times at the door, as if the weight to go.

When they leave, I will decide to go to the salon. Spending time to the salon is a hobby of mine. I arrived at the salon langgananku few hours later. In the salon I met one of my friends as well as those who did not like. We chat with each other showing off fun including our activities. It was time I had to pay the bills salon, but how shocked I was when I realized that my wallet left behind at home. Although the deepest reach into my bag until I could not find it in the bag.

Trying to remember what happened until I could not find my wallet I called my husband and ask.

"Sorry dear, Farhan yesterday asking pocket money and I have little money it took from your wallet. I forgot to put it back into the bag, I think I put on my desk. "Said explained gently.

Angrily, I scolded her harshly. I hung up without waiting for finish. Shortly thereafter, handphoneku resumes and although still upset, I will lift it with half snaps. "What else?"

"Honey, I'm home now, I'll grab his wallet and drove him to you. Unfortunately now there is where? "Asked my husband quickly, afraid I hung up again. I mention the name of my salon and without waiting for the answer again, I re-hung.

I spoke with the cashier and said that my husband would come to pay my bill. The owner of Salon that my friend had in fact let me go and said I could pay for it later when I come back again.

But the shame of the "enemy" also come to hear me out of my wallet makes me proud to owe first.

The rain fell as I looked out and expect the car to my husband immediately. Minutes stretched into hours, I was getting impatient so started calling my husband's cell phone. There was no answer despite repeated call. Though usually only twice has he lifted the phone rang. I began to feel uncomfortable and angry.

Phone picked up after several attempts. When the sound of yet another bentakanku out, a strange voice answered the phone my husband. I was silent for a moment before the sound stranger introduced himself, "Good day, mother. Is the mother the wife of the father armandi? "I answer that question soon.

Stranger turned out to be a policeman, he was told that my husband had an accident and now he is being taken to the police hospital. At that moment I was silent and the only answer thank you. When the phone is closed, I crouched in puzzlement. My hands clutched the phone in my hands and some salon employees approached me with a swift asked what was wrong until my face turned pale white as paper.

Somehow I ended up in hospital. Somehow also knew the whole family was there to catch up. I'm just waiting for my husband's silence in front of the emergency room. I do not know what to do as long as it was he who did everything for me. When finally after waiting several hours, just as the sunset call to prayer echoes sounded a doctor came out and delivered the news. My husband is gone. He left not because of the accident itself, stroke was the cause of his death.

Finished hearing the fact, I even busy parents and parents reinforce the shock. There was absolutely no drop of tears in my eyes out. I was busy calming the mother and father-in-law. Children who are hit with a tight hug, but their grief utterly unable to make me cry.

When the corpse was brought into the house and I sat in front of him, I was staring face. I realize this is the first time I actually looked at his face that seemed fast asleep. I approached her and looked at it carefully.

That's when my chest becomes congested remembered what he'd given me for ten years together. Gently touched her face was cold and I realize that this is the first time I touched her face, which had always decorated with a warm smile.

Spread tears in my eyes, blurring my vision. I gasped trying to wipe the tears did not hinder my last look at her, I want her to remember all the good memories about my husband could have ended there. But instead of stopping, the torrential flooding tears on both cheeks. Warnings from mosque imam who could not organize a funeral procession made me stop crying. I tried not to, but my chest remembering what I did to him last time we talked.

I remembered how I never pay attention to his health. I hardly ever manage to eat. Though he always manage what I eat. He noticed that vitamins and medications should kukonsumsi especially when pregnant and after childbirth. He never missed eating regularly reminded, sometimes even feed me if I'm lazy to eat. I never knew what he was eating because I never asked. I do not even know what he likes and dislikes.

Almost the entire family to know that my husband is a fan of strong coffee and instant noodles. My chest to hear, because I know he may be forced to eat instant noodles because I hardly ever cook for him. I'm just cooking for the kids and myself. I do not care he had eaten or not when I go home. He can eat my cooking only when left. And he came home late from work every day because it is quite far away from home. I never want to respond to his request to move closer to his office for not far away from where my friends live.

At the funeral, I could not help himself. I fainted when I saw him disappear along piles of stockpiled soil. I do not know anything until waking up in my big bed. I awoke with a sense of regret meeting my chest cavity. My extended family in vain to persuade me because they never knew why I was so hurt to lose him.

I spent the days after his departure is not freedom as long as it wanted, but instead I was trapped in the desire to be with him. In the early days of his departure, I sat stunned staring at an empty plate. Father, mother and mother-in-law persuaded me to eat. But what I remember is when my husband talked me eat when I'm mengambek first.

When I forgot to bring a towel in the bath, I screamed and called her as usual when in fact my mother is coming, I crouched down crying in the bathroom hope he comes. Habit of calling every time I can not do anything at home, making his bewildered friend answered the phone. Every night I waited in the bedroom and expect the next morning I woke up next to her figure.

I was so upset when first heard snoring sleep, but now I even wake up for the longing to hear it again. First I was upset because he was often a mess in our bedroom, but now I feel our bedroom was empty and hollow. Once I was so upset when it does the job and left it on my laptop without having to log out, now I'm staring at a computer, the keys rubbed his fingers hoping the former is still left there.

First I do not like it to make coffee without a base plate on the table, now the scar is left on the breakfast terakhirnyapun not want to erase. Typical television remote hiding, is now easily found, though I wish I could replace the loss with the loss of the remote. All the stupidity that I did because I realized that he loved me and I have been hit by an arrow of love.

I'm also angry at myself, I was angry because all seemed normal although she had none. I'm angry

because the clothes are still there to leave the smell that makes me nostalgic. I was angry because he can not stop all my sorrow. I was angry because there's nothing to persuade me to calm down, reminding me there's nothing more I pray even now willingly.

I pray because I want to apologize, to apologize to God for a husband squandered was awarded to me, asking forgiveness for being a bad wife to her husband who is so perfect. Sholatlah are able to remove my grief a little. Love God showed to me with so much attention from the family for me and the kids. My friends who have been defending Stand up, almost never show their nose after the departure of my husband.

Forty days after his death, reminding families to rise from adversity. There are two children who are waiting for me and should I live. Back a sense of confusion came over me. During this time I knew something wrong and never worked. My husband is all done. How much of his income during this I do not care, I care about only the amount of dollars that he transfer to my account for personal use and wear for every month the money is almost never left. From the office where she works, I get the final salary with bonus compensation.

I was speechless when he saw it did not expect, it turns out the entire salary is transferred into my account so far. Though I was never the slightest use for domestic purposes. Somewhere else where he obtained the money to meet domestic needs because I never asked about itu.Yang though I know now I have to work or my children would not be able to live because of the number of final salary and bonus compensation would not be enough to feed three of us. But working in? I hardly ever have any experience at all. Everything is always governed by him.

Bewilderment missed some time later. My father came with a notary. He brings a lot of documents. Then provide a notarized letter. Husband's affidavit that he bequeathed his entire estate to me and the kids, he accompanied his mother in the letter but that made me unable to say anything is what she wrote for me.

Beloved wife Liliana,

Sorry to have to leave first, dear. sorry to make you responsible for taking care of everything yourself. I'm sorry I can not give love and affection again. God gave me a very short time for love and children is the best thing I ever did for you.

If I could, I would like to accompany love forever. But I do not want you to lose my love for granted. I've been saving little by little to your life later. I do not want to love hard after I left. There's not much but I hope I can give love to use it to raise and educate children. Do your best to them, yes dear.

Do not cry, my love being spoiled. Do a lot of things to make your life wasted all this time. I give you the freedom to realize the dreams that you do not have time for this. Forgive me if I trouble you and may God give you better than me mate.

Dear Farah, my beloved daughter. I'm sorry because my father could be there with you. Be a good wife as mother and Farhan, knight protector. Take care of mother and Farah. Do not be a naughty boy again and always remember where you were, my father would see him there. Okay, Buddy!

I wept reading the letter, there is a cartoon with glasses that were typical of the tongue sticking my husband if he sent the note. Notary told that during this time my husband has some insurance and savings deposits of the legacy of his biological father. My husband made some of the savings deposit business and the business was quite successful despite dimanajerin by those beliefs. I can only cry to know how much he loved us, so that when death came to him he was still flooded us with love.

I never thought to marry again. The number of men who attended was able to remove the figure is still so alive in my heart. Day after day just kuabdikan for my children. When my parents and my in-laws go one by one leaving selaman ever, none left the sadness deep sadness when my husband left.

The second son is now twenty-three year old daughter. In two days my daughter marry a young man from the land side. Our daughter asked, "Mom, I'm going to do it later after becoming a wife, Farah because it can cook ga, ga can nyuci, how ya lady?"

I hugged her saying "Love love, love your husband, love the choice of your heart, love what he has and you will get everything. For love, you will learn to please him, will learn to accept his shortcomings, will learn that for any problem, you'll finish it in the name of love. "

My daughter looked at me, "like a mother's love for the father? Is that love makes the mother remained faithful to the father until now? "

I shook my head, "no, my dear. Love your husband like a father loves the mother first, like a father loves you both. Devoted mother to my father for father's love is so great in the mother and both of you. "

I probably got lucky because it did not show my love for my husband. I spent ten years to hate him, but spent most of the rest of my life for love. I'm free of him because of death, but I could never free from the love that is so sincere.

Between Love And Friendship

may be very painful if we are in a position to choose between love and friendship,
I admit, ....
I will not take risks that are too painful,
I would not choose it,
I will make sure that my best friend is the one for me and my love is the person I choose for my future,
I'm sure my love will be all right,
because of a sincere love will clearly understand.
how meaningful a friendship.
"sacrifice" in both of them had to be excluded from our everyday lives,
I could not have sacrificed my friendship to a love,
and I could not love for a kegoisan mengorbakankan alone,
hay my friend and my love,
understood you,
you are the very means of life.

no sweet promises of friendship, but the real action is always given to you always with me forever,
and always try to understand my situation.

I love my friends,
and I always loved my love someday

If it works just worked, worked monkeys

last night

A friend asked me

Why would the situation be like this, ..?

Then I answered

"The right man on the right place and the right time" is lost brother, ..

so

do not expect everything will be fine.



After that my mind drifted

Then get to the city Minang and met my old friend

At that time he said:

"If you just live life, live pigs in the forest as well"

"If it works just worked, worked monkeys"

Shake the death of the soul

In a village there lived an old woman teacher of the Koran. He is known for its modesty, gentleness, and patience in teaching the science of religion. However, in terms of the Shari'a, he was known to be honest and disiplin.Artinya he would say A if A and B if B says, although his opinion was contrary to public opinion in general is still common.

He was already uzdur (about 70 years) but still fresh and radiant face afiat organs. Not much to ask where he is, especially for new settlers in the village. People refer to him as Grandma Hajj (pilgrimage because it is), Granny Guru, Ustadzah, Encang Haji, or Encang Guru. His real name is rarely mentioned people. He teaches religion and reading the Koran in his simple nan, in a village on the outskirts of the metropolis.

Teachers Encang known not distinguish anyone. Nor their age. Anyone who wants to take your lessons, are welcome to come to his house on a regular basis on the day and time. It's just reserved for those who want the Koran, must be serious and istiqomah. Can not get to just mess around and try.

In the past, pilgrims teachings are a small congregation. But now, as more people will know her politeness, knowledge, and the nature of the patient, many people are increasingly self glorifying him. A large organization has recorded him as the man who should be respected, honored, and given a place commensurate with the scientific and moral causes.

Well, in the same village there lived a man's head that are contrary to the environment (antagonist). He was much younger (around the 50's) and have a profession that more or less the same, ie tutor. It's just that he tends to be commercial and self-worldly. Let's call him Ustadz Darly

As a simple example, when he will deliver Friday sermons, then he will be picky mosque which could give a big honor. If there is a project of rural / urban villages, it was he who acted as the only person (in the neighborhood) who can submit proposals, disburse funds, and create accountability reports that the reality is different to what dilaporkan.Semuanya under the control of him and his family. All heads beneath the environment, no one slightly and do not know for sure. If the repaired water line so Alhamdulillah, despite an improved 20 m and 100 m were reported. If the environment in the asphalt road to collect dues each house passed Rp 100,000 yes Alhamdulillah, though properly without having to collect dues and properly citizens with a good sealing. A lot of people associated with the village who knows football terjangnya, then they leaked it to the community off the record. So all in silence, but in fact was equally understood.

One day he met with Encang Teacher in front of his house. Conversation ensued,

"... By the way his contract is long what ya soon!"

Darly asking questions intended to poke fun. Said one resident, Darly's the way the character, and cornered like to poke fun at people. It seemed he would not be satisfied if it does not make people be offended or hurt.

Ustadz Darly had heard teasing, Encang Haji just said patiently, perhaps by holding a little heart on his chest wound. His voice and disabar dipelankan-sabarkan.

"Son Haji ... Her name is that age, we can not know ...."

Darly Ustadz hastily interrupting,

"... But I have a long contract Haji Nek ...."

"Well ... his name age, son Haji ga be so. All pre-determined destiny by God .. "

"Yeah, but I still contract longer Haji Nek right?"

Encang Teachers can only hear silence Darly feat that is not to be outdone by ledekannya. If you need to have his chest to revive him, perhaps Encang Haji may already be done. But alas, he was probably advised.

Incidentally Ustadz Darly was with his wife at the time, the behavior is not much different from himself. Suddenly his wife said:

"Who is going to be a widow Haji Nek back soon .."

Darly Ustadz wife did not want to lose joked with death. Haji Encang already Widow. As if she said that her husband was still young and old still lives in her dunia.Tidaklah possible and in turn receive a widow. He cornered Encang pilgrimage to suggest a question "If not Encang Haji who would soon die then who is? '

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Two days later, there was a breaking news is not unexpected. Darly cleric reportedly died from complications of appendicitis at a hospital in the metropolis.

Some people took the news casually without enthusiasm, partly surprised that only a few days ago met in a healthy condition, and some gratitude in the hearts of each one.

But there is one man who shook his soul to hear the news. And it was revealed a few days after the period of mourning over and he recounted the incident to the nearest odd. He was the teacher's grandmother.

"To this day my heart was still shaking when considering the incident ...." he said.

Without mentioning why, we can understand and feel the atmosphere of his mind. He did not say anything any word when he ridiculed and marginalized. When they should be honored because he is much older and it is the integrity and scientific baik.Namun he more likely, unwilling servant of Allah that sincere hurt and wounded heart.

Allah SWT has been reluctant menjawabkan questions he answered at that time. Allah SWT has membalaskannya with a fair return.

His heart trembled because His power is so obvious lies before him.

Naudzubillah. May we avoid offending noble-minded servants of God. And may this be the amplifier that we do not need to worry or be afraid to rebuke those who denounce us. Lean everything to Him. Allah SWT has the best response to hambaNya.Wallahua 'lam.

Tips for success

* One *, be thankful for today. "Just to be alive is a grand thing," said Agatha Christie, one of the foremost detective novelist. Flee
feeling depressed and sad without juntrungan. Live each day with a heart full of gratitude. Think of Bill Porter. If he could be a
successful salesman, whatever you want really can surely be achieved.

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* Two *, learn as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die tomorrow. Mohandas Gandhi once said so, "Live as if you were the resource persons to die tomorrow, learn as if you were the resource persons to live forever." Learning continues, continue to upgrade themselves in various ways both require effort and effortlessly.

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* Three, * every skill there must be users. This I can from one of my friends blonda a woman from San Diego.
Crystal is my best friend ever membesarkah my heart, "There are all Kinds of writers, there are all Kinds of readers." When I was down because they feel incompetent to fight with local authors here, Crystal reminds that there's every kind of writer readers
(Niche). Find your niche, so you find your place in the world.

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* Four *, open your own way, original. Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, "Do not Go Nowhere May the path leads, go instead Nowhere 'there is no path and leave a trail."

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* Five, * learn to love what you have, rather than daydream about what you do not have. Use whatever you have at hand, the dream will come true only if you use the instrument visible now.

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* Six *, see what the look and see what is not visible. Use the vision and mission to get to know what you want to go. Often, what is not visible is the blue print for your success. Once seen, it would be a kind of de ja vu.

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* Seven *, swallow the bitterness of life and be prepared to welcome the new day. Every day is a new day. Wake up each morning with a curious heart will be what will you experience that day. Be excited, be Courageous to start the day.

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* Eight, * the more you give, the more you will receive. The more you give, the more you get in return. In marketing, this might be called the tactics of public relations or publicity. However, in everyday life, it also applies without diselipi with a certain lure. I myself have proved it. The more we give (in the broad sense, not limited to money and material), the greater the rewards and blessings we receive.

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* Nine *, be a mentor yourself. What would Oprah do? That's what I use as a measure. I did not choose the Prophet or state authorities, but a colored woman who has turned his own fate became one of those influential in the world.

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* Ten *, I exist with or without my body. At least once a day, I remind myself that life is not forever. So the best did according to the present as well. Do not wait-wait longer. "Just do it," Cher said in the Farewell Concertnya several years ago. I do my best every chance I have. Did according setiapkesempatan best, because it might be the last.

Remember success is not objective, nor travel. Success is a mindset. Not only go cogito er sum (I think therefore I am), but the sum ego prosperitas (success is me).

* Source *:
Ten Tips Sukses Right Here, Right Now by Jennie S. Bev.
Jennie S. Bev is a Prolific author and co-author of 17 books and
over 850 articles published in the United States, Canada, UK,
France, Germany, Singapore and Indonesia.

meaning a success

Success for me is the mindset. Success is mine; I was successful. Success is not objective, nor travel. Success is about being and Becoming.

It sounds bold and overconfident? Maybe, obviously thousands and even millions of human beings "success" of the world's human alias like-minded champions have this mindset.

Do you need to be Wimbledon tennis champion or a champion-level golf professionals in the PGA Pebble Beach to be called "success"? Do you need to drive a Corvette and Lexus hybrid SUV? Obviously not. A champion mentality bermindset aka "successful people" could be just a salesman only.

Take the example of Bill Porter, a salesman door-to-door from Portland, Oregon who was born with cerebral palsy. He was on foot at least 10
miles per day for 40 years with a limp every day without complaining. Remarkably, because the left side of his body not working
normal person, he is actually very difficult to walk upright and speak clearly. (Read www.billporter.com, the movie "Door to Door" and the book
titled "Ten Things I Learned from Bill Porter" by Shelly Brady.) With mediocre earnings from a salesman door to door, obviously in the eyes of ordinary oang he does not include the category of "successful financially."

However, for me, Bill Porter is one of the most successful people in the world that I admire very much. One of my goals is to meet face to face with him one day.

Success story of Mike Lazaridis, creator of the Blackberry mobile phone

VISIONARY, innovators. The first one could see far into the future. Secondly, it creates something that is needed by people to live comfortably in conditions in the future. Those two words together in a silver-haired man named Mike Lazaridis. He was a maniac from childhood tinkering electronic goods and do not finish college majoring in Electrical Engineering. He's dropped out, only two months before graduation at the University of Waterloo, Canada. He prefers busy company that he founded while in college.

Traces of his work is probably now in your grasp. He is the creator of smart phone called the BlackBerry, which revolutionized and changed the map and the future of phone technology cerdas.Hingga June this year RIM, Researh in Motion - the company who defended Mike-Stand up to no time to graduation, which manufactures the BlackBerry it - recorded sales of more than 100 million units.

Before developing the BlackBerry, RIM in 1999 worked with RAM Mobile Data and Ericsson cell phone company is earlier known, develop Mobitex. This is a mobile data device pioneered by Ericsson.Hasilnya? Inter @ ctive Pager was launched 950. August 2000 began to be marketed this product. The size is about the size of bath soap. In the market it competes with SkyTel, similar products - are both two-way pager - courtesy of Motorola. This product is not successful in the market. Anyway pager era quickly once so ancient.

Try, note that brand names: Mobitex, Inter @ ctive Pager. The names which now seemed very tacky, is not it? That is why, in 2002, when RIM is going to develop new products Mike did not want to carelessly nama.Produk love it, which we later gilai as the BlackBerry, has push e-mail facilities, can menyelancari internet, text communication and of course can call. What a suitable name to summarize all the benefits of it?

Branding Lexico cursing RIM services in California. A brand consulting firm. David Placek, Lexicon's boss at first looking for a name that can highlight the ability of e-mail the new smart devices. Mentor. Finally, set other terms: the new name it should seem more natural, entertaining and fun. "Anyway, can lower blood pressure," said Placek. One of the drafting team's name one day noticed little black keyboard on the Blackberry prototype. In his eyes looked like a watermelon seed composition. Then begin to trace the names based on the impression that, from strawberries to melons, until the names of other fruit.

Nothing is satisfying before finally reaching the BlackBerry said, good to hear this word and fits well with jet-black color of the object. "BlackBerry easily embedded in memory, better than names like ProMail or MegaMail," said Placel. I think, if two names 'Animashaun' is used, the BlackBerry is not as successful now.

BlackBerry is now sold in 91 countries, cooperating with 500 operators, and controls 20.8 percent of smart phone market. Only outdone by Nokia Syimbian OS.Placel also now have a potent formula of the brands, learn from the success of BlackBerry, "If the product you want to attention, do not use a name that describes something, you must create a new concept," he said.

BlackBerry is a product that grab attention. With her customers feel privileged and addiction. To the extent Websers New Word Dictionary chose the word Crackberry to "Cool New Words of 2006", mengalahkah "netroot" and "neuroeconomic". Crackberry addicts refer to the BlackBerry. Crack is a synonym of cocaine, which is easy to make dependence, is not it?

Each unit of the BlackBerry is unique, because it is marked with a PIN code with a combination of eight numbers and letters that users can communicate via text thanks to the BlackBerry Messenger.

Mike Lazaridis, born March 14, 1961, in Istanbul Turkey. Her parents blooded Greek. At the age of five years, he joined his family moved to Canada. They settled in Windsor, Ontario.

Mike has demonstrated the talent, ingenuity and perseverance since childhood. At the age of 12 years, in 1979, he won the prize of the Windsor Public Library because he had read all the books the library science collection. Since childhood she opiate of reading. I can not imagine, what if his talent in the city no good public libraries. Maybe a talent that will go to waste.

Mike was lucky because the parents and the school environment it is possible that he developed his talent and his interest in electronics.

In 1979, he began studying at the University of Waterloo, Ontario, Canada. It was here he began to pioneer the rim. In 1984, during a student, Mike participated in the bidding contest automotive giant General Motors. Her project is to design a display system controller computer network. He won and to a prize of labor contract worth 500 thousand U.S. dollars.

With the capital was the result of the employment contract, plus a small loan from the Canadian government and owe it to her parents, Mike with his friend Mike Barnstijn, and Douglas Fregin began to pioneer the rim. One of the achievements of the company, before BlackBerry was successfully developed barcode.

Look, there's always a way to realize a vision. What we need is to formulate a strong vision, sharpen vision, and constantly tries. That's what can we learn from Mike Lazaridis and BlackBerry.

History records many industries in the world's great companies, great inventor finally collapsed. How RIM and BlackBerry survive? Focus and enhance the benefits of the product. "We have employees of 14 thousand people who only think of one product: the BlackBerry and its services," said Mike.

When the economic crisis forcing people melacikan phones, the crowds still leaving a BlackBerry in hand. Why? "BlackBerry five times more efficient, for example, to send and reply to e-mail, and we have a longer lasting battery," said Mike.

face time, see cruelty in Palestinian land

however I'm considering noise and silence

era, leaving only the face of god in metal and sheet-metal currency

every morning equator no longer calm smile

all down, mourning the death tonight of a lamp and reflection



wild cry of the boy Palestinian and the boys living bone to the third world

tighten the rope was not strong enough compassion

human life is busy playing in another string

herding his wish in the holy land

with defilements smelly trick and murder



who else will be appointed prophet muhammad god if already defined as a final

all I know now is the prophet's hands that have made ​​him a book of life and death

massacred by stock, tools of war, and feasting to the accompaniment of the tears fall tone vengeful boy



Is this era face unexpected

song to the sun

still like the day before. even this day I can only see the sun from the opposite fabric window coverings. god knows what he meant with all his plans. diiringkannya birth never seemed to move the sun. with the moon, as her mother melahirkanku flawless, flawless in handsome, even aunt says I'm the girl who is always covered with a moon god. but there is one thing I never understood until now, I can not mingle properly the other girls out there with an increasingly watered sunlight beautify the day when the day has come.



sun, perhaps is the beauty that can never be enjoyed. same with the other beauties that not everything can be enjoyed by others. there's always that must not and can not to be touched, seen, or even just thought.



someday I'll be able to be out there and face to face with Matahariku. the neighbors say I was a child vampire who may not be allowed to know more solar energy. my skin was always red and peeling so soon in the sun, that's why I always spend my days in the house. read books that I think are always just a fictional story because I do not know anything that happened out there except the night, and the moon.



what are you thinking

if I approach you and want to share

sing and laugh with you

smile like your face

which kuukir in watermelon fruit when it



reff:

sun sun sun

maybe we lover who never met

although we missed each other in the world dumb

sun sun sun

Our story is so sweet

without hate without hate just missed

until we met

in a place without time

you are mine, only mine

My Best Friend

my best friend

lean for a moment

This prayer rug on the rod I visit

want to mingle how yesterday you teased me with a sense of shame

and today

it seems you are tired

without wrinkles, I also know how old you

certainly before Adam, before Eve

even prior to heaven and hell

The drizzle that never arrived

Leave me a message that has been in the drizzle that never arrived

just come on the verge and then lost-threshold kerembangan

the message was about the rigidity stripes

I kept the beauty of the uterus between lightning and the clouds do not split

at night because the defendant

I have gone from tears and laughter

alienate themselves from all kinds of search

disclose always silent quiet intercourse virgin

Weeping Stone

In a remote village, lived a girl and her mother. The girl was beautiful. Unfortunately, he's very lazy. He did not want to help her mother make a living. Every day she was just dressing up. Every day, she admired her beauty in the mirror. In addition to lazy, she is also spoiled. Whatever is requested, must be granted. Of course, this situation made her very sad.

One day her mother asked her daughter to accompany him to the market. "It's okay, but I do not want to walk together with my mother. My mother had to walk behind me, "he said. Although sad, her mother agreed. They moved them both down the hill hand in hand. The girl walked in front, the mother walked behind, carrying baskets.

Although they are mother and child, they look different. As if they did not come from the same family. How could I not? Her beautiful dress is very nice. Who's her mother's old look and dress is very simple.

On the way, no one greeted them. "Hi pretty girl, whether the person behind you is your mother?" Asked the man. "Of course not. He is the servant, "she said. How sad to hear her mother. But she's just quiet. His heart was crying. That continuously. Any person who greeted and asked who the old lady with her, she always said that aides.

Old-old mother hurt. He also prayed. "Yes, Lord, punish the child who is ungrateful," he said. Mother's prayer was heard. Slowly, her legs turned to stone. The change that occurs from the foot upward. "Mother, mother! Forgive me. Forgive me! "She cried frantically. The girl kept crying and crying. But it's too late. Her whole body was finally turned to stone. Even so, people can still see him shed tears. Therefore the stone was named "Stone Crying"

Situ Bagendit Story

In ancient times there lived a wealthy widow, named Nyai Bagendit.

He lived in a village in West Java.

Nyai Bagendit have treasures abound.

However, he is very stingy and greedy.

He is also very arrogant, especially on poor people.

One day Nyai Bagendit hold salvation because his property multiply.

When salvation is in progress, there came a beggar.

The situation is very pathetic beggar.

Her body is very skinny and his clothes in tatters.

"Please Nyai, give the food a little slave," the beggar was begging.

Seeing an old beggar, dirty rags into his house, Nyai Bagendit was angry and expelled it beggars.

"Beggars shameless dirty, you go from my house," snapped Nyai Bagendit.

With a sad beggar went away.

The next day society preoccupied with the emergence of a stick stuck in the village street.

Everyone was trying to pull a stick.

However, nothing worked.

Old beggar who asked to eat at Nyai Bagendit reappeared.

Quickly he can revoke it stick.

Immediately exit the shower water is very swift.

The longer the water was getting heavy.

For fear of flood, the villagers were displaced.

Nyai Bagendit a greedy miser and would not leave his house.

He was very fond of his property.

Finally, he sank along with their possessions.

Another resident who survived.

Perhaps, that's the origin of the lake who later called Situ Bagendit.

Mandate: "So people do not be stingy, arrogant, and greedy of wealth."

Value: "Moral, in everyday life."

No humans are born perfect, so keep trying, never give up

Day is bright, a king asked his friend. The king was very happy because his friend was always optimistic in the face of life. Because of that, hopefully that day is good luck in hunting animals in the forest. Friends of the king in charge of carrying a rifle and bullets fill. At the sight of fire, so spirit of the king mounted his horse and asked the gun from his friend. Apparently bad luck befall the king. Rifle given his friend was not locked, the trigger was interested and the king shoot his own feet. The king fell, his right toe was covered with blood. As she moaned in pain, the king saw his leg broken thumb was shot. Her friend immediately dismounted and approached the king as he said, "Oh, that's okay. King could have been hurt more badly. This is not how. "Light of the king angry just to hear his friend say so. Immediately the king ordered the guards to enter his friend to jail. That's the penalty for causing the king lost his big toe.

Every few months, the king re-hunting. This time, because it was too excited, the group lost to the king through the state border. Eventually captured by local tribesmen, tribal cannibals. What a fear of the king, he saw several guards have been cut off and boiled. Until the time came for the king, he begged to be freed in exchange for property and territory in the kingdom. However, the people of the tribe of cannibals is not interested in the offer. Until finally, they took off all clothes and shoes king. They were shocked, talking loudly while pointing the thumb of the defective king. King knew of the movements of people were cannibals. Looks like they have a rule not to eat people with disabilities. It's taboo because it could aggravate the condition of their future offspring. Finally the king freed. More precisely, the king actually expelled from the tribe of cannibals that.

King walked to his kingdom as he reflected. He is the only survivor of his entourage. Along the way, the king remembered the speech delivered by his friend first, that accidents always have a good wisdom. Imagine what he has done to a good friend and always think positive. Arriving in the kingdom, the king rushed to the jail and ordered that his friend was released. How sad, the body of his friend is very skinny and his face pale. Although under such conditions, his friend still smiling at him. The king was deeply moved and immediately hugged his friend's limp body was. Sorry, that word is always spoken from the lips of the king many times. Then the king told the events he experienced recently with his entourage. "Friend, I'm so sorry. Apparently once you say is true. Loss of big toe was definitely a silver lining. Please you excuse me for the treatment you receive while in prison. "Hearing the story of a king, a friend was still smiling as he said," It's okay king. It's a good thing. "The king was surprised to hear that answer," How could you not nothing, while you in jail so starvation and forced labor. "Then his friend said, smiling wider," Of course this is a good king. If I'm not in jail, then I would join the group and go hunt the king was beheaded by a tribe of cannibals that! "

Well anyway, if we are able to my little patient, just be patient while waiting for the wisdom of what we experience, then we will become a more personal gracefully. This is what makes the author seeks full with the bounty of Allah to complete the manuscript. Always wished there was a door guidance in every word contained in every string of sentence of this advice. Awakened by the word of God, advice of the scholars and so was the rebound softly the words of D'Masiv, Never Give Up:

No humans are born perfect ..

Do you regret all that has happened ..

We'll never get a heavy ordeal ..

As if life meant nothing anymore ..


Thankful for all that is ..

Life is a gift ..

Stay live this life ..

Doing the best ..


God would not show ..

Greatness and power ..

For those of His servants who wait ..

And do not know despair ..

It is true, life is like a ladder that must go through. Not counted how many steps that have been missed. To be sure, there are still steps that continue to wait. We must do something to traverse the side of a better life. No silence, no deterrent then stopped. Step foot to keep climbing day. Lejitkan themselves to reach achievements. Strengthen the heart to welcome the divine blessing. There is a beginning, there must also end. If the destination has not been found, it is not just another travel option, but it became a requirement!

Starting a Safety Program for Small Business

he purpose of a safety program is to involve employees in achieving and maintaining a safe, healthful workplace. This program will have a safety committee that will discuss and find solutions to problems that can cause accidents, injuries, and illnesses. Fewer accidents, injuries, and illnesses will lower your workers' compensation costs and insurance premium rates and can increase your profit.
There are steps that must be taken for a safety committee and program to be an effective one. These steps will include:

In holding weekly safety meetings and if your business has 10 or fewer employees, it would be beneficial to have employees attend safety committee meetings. Low-hazard workplaces such as office settings may substitute monthly meetings for weekly meetings. Discuss what everyone can do to achieve or maintain a safe, healthful workplace. Focus on just one important topic, such as controlling an existing hazard or identifying an unsafe work practice. If you have a construction business, discuss hazards at the site with the general contractor before you begin a job. Then meet regularly with your crew during the job to discuss any new hazards they may encounter and how to control them.

Take minutes because they are the written record of your committee's activities and accomplishments. It's an easy – but important – task. Minutes can be kept in a simple notebook and should be referred to at each new meeting. These minutes will keep track on progress on unfinished issues.

Make sure that employees receive their regular wages while they attend safety committee meetings. This is law. So if someone comes in to attend from another shift, make sure they receive their pay for the time spent.

All employees, including supervisors, must have a clear understanding and be accountable of the consequences for failing to fulfill their safety and health responsibilities. Make your commitment to workplace safety and health a company policy. Require your employees to follow safe work practices as a condition of employment. Ensure that your employees have the appropriate tools, equipment, and materials to do their jobs safely.

Once implemented, a safety program will become a part of the business everyday process. Through the implementing stages, employees will become a closer team and know they must look after each other. The business will show a better efficiency as well.